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One writer’s attempt to make sense of the nonsense, squeeze magnificence from mundanity and beat back the dark one word at a time.
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
On the virtues of being well-rounded...
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Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Monday, July 6, 2009
Bye bye Sarah! Don't let the door hit you...

UGH! The only thing that frustrates me more is people who think she had any right to run as VP to begin with, as if she had any merit of her own. I am not a Hillary Clinton fan, but to compare Sarah Palin's intelligence to Hillary Clinton's is like comparing an aerospace engineer to the fry guy at McDonald's, seriously. We should expect more of ALL of our elected officials, male and female. ONE VAGINA IS NOT AS GOOD AS ANOTHER. *On a side note: I don't think Sarah Palin even deserves to have one. Ahem, thank you.
Dear Fry Girl:
Maybe now, with your newfound free time, you'll pick up a newspaper or perhaps even try that newfangled contraption they call "the internets!"
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
The Strength of Silence
But the numbers were not the striking thing about this protest.
It was non-violent.
It was almost completely silent.
And it is growing.

Many average Americans don't follow mid-east events because frankly, it's complicated and they don't understand America's role. For those under 30, it's somewhat abstract.

All you need to understand is this, the basics:
In 1953 President Eisenhower was enticed by mutual interest to cooperate in a covert mission with the British government--Operation Ajax, which would effectively overthrow the then-current Shah and install one that was more receptive to Western interests, which was especially important considering America's Cold War problems with Russia. The then-current Shah didn't have a lot of support because he supported secular government, so he wasn't difficult to depose. However, the Shah that was then installed was particularly brutal, and ruled for the next 26 years. This isn't something many young Americans remember, but it's a living, breathing part of Iranian history not soon forgotten.
So idiots like John McCain and Eric Cantor, who like to think they understand foreign policy and love that sweet ascent to their high-horses they stand so proudly on display their ignorance for all to see when they suggest that the U.S. should publicly condemn the bogus Iranian election and stand behind the Iranian people. They say Obama hasn't said enough, but the problem is, they need to take a lesson from him--he at least has a clue about when to keep his mouth shut. Even with what little, noncommittal language he has used thus far, the Iranian government is whining that the U.S. is meddling in Iranian affairs. If we are seen as meddling, it lends legitimacy to Ahmedinejad's government and strips it away from the Reformist movement (every one of the protesters you see pictured here). WHY would we want to sabotage the very thing we're saying we support?

Once again, this very dumbed-down, completely oversimplified, black and white, and frankly ignorant perception of mid-east affairs is part and parcel of how we ended up in Iraq in the first place. It's a symptom of disease, and that disease is lack of education paired with mediocre talent. These problems aren't so complex that we cannot grasp them. We have the ability, just no desire. We're too busy watching Speidi on "I'm a celebrity, get me out of here!" and sipping our Starbucks' lattes while texting our BFFs.
America's priorities are so f*cked up.
(Photos courtesy of http://www.flickr.com/photos/fhashemi)
Monday, June 8, 2009
June 8, 2009 -- Cheney tied to cash theft and possible murder in Iraq
According to an informed source, Dick Cheney, while Vice President, amassed a fortune in cash stolen by
Sources report to WMR that
The recent intelligence about Iraqi cash ending up in the coffers of American officials is not the first time WMR has reported on the theft of Iraqi cash by
On November 14, 2005, WMR reported: "In one of the worst intelligence fiascoes carried out by the neo-con administration of Iraq under Paul "Jerry' Bremer, Saddam Hussein's chief money mover and financial adviser was beaten to death by US interrogators in Tikrit after the U.S. invasion . . . As Saddam's chief financial adviser and money mover, Abu Seger [Sa'ad Hassan Ali], a man who was fluent in American-style English, knew where all the "financial skeletons" were buried -- details of Halliburton's involvement with the UN's Oil-for-Food program, the purchase by Iraq of VX nerve gas and other WMD components from US and British sources in the 1980s, and various counter-intelligence operations run by Saddam against the United States and Britain. Abu Seger was also one of Saddam's trusted counter-intelligence agents . . . After Samara was occupied by US forces, it was discovered that Abu Seger lived in a home on the Tigris River just 200 yards from the main U.S. military position in the city. It did not take long for
Amid the other scandals surrounding Cheney, including his countenance of torture, the theft of cash and his possible involvement in the murder of Abu Seger may be added to the former vice president's rap sheet of crimes perpetrated in
Cheney recently built a multi-million dollar home in
Corporate U.S. news media drastically downplayed the amount of cash stolen from Iraq by U.S. forces and that the maximum amount of cash discovered in "cottages" was around $760 million, when, in fact, it was much higher. A handful of
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Monday, May 11, 2009
Women's rights take another two steps back
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Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Friday, May 1, 2009
Dancing the fine line
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Thursday, April 30, 2009
Miss America: Making intelligent women inwardly cringe since 1921
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Ahmadinejad's no saint, but...
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Have thoughts, will post!
We had a downsizing which directly affected my department at work, so we're quite busy (be thankful to have a job, right?), which doesn't leave me much time to blog lately. But alas, things will settle down, and I'll post more regularly again. Promise.
Toodles!
Sunday, April 26, 2009
An Open Letter to Gary Kiser, AUS Retired
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
I say again...what is this crap? Is this the new idiot trend?
Stop the madness! Or, continue to make yourselves look stupid. The latter, you say? Apparently.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
When all else fails, falsely claim that Barack Obama is not a U.S. citizen, right?
What makes me sad about this story is the fact that a 40-year-old man who joined the military late in life to serve his country, is now simultaneously SHAMING it. It's almost hard to believe that these rumors are still flitting around the country, and are even gaining steam in some areas. Why? It doesn't seem to matter who disproves the rumor, or what case is (over and over again) thrown out of court, these people are still on their soapboxes instead of being in the trenches with the rest of us, as a unified country, trying to figure out how to dig ourselves out of the mess we're in. They're essentially still crying over spilled milk. If you're reading this and still (even now) are questioning our President's status as a U.S. citizen, try a simple search for 'obama's birth certificate' or check out snopes.com. Waaaa....
Monday, February 23, 2009
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Raping Social Security...again
I'd be interested in checking into which administration(s) borrowed from the Social Security fund. Did both Democratic and Republican administrations borrow from it, or has this been an extremely drawn-out ploy to disable a system Republicans never wanted instituted in the first place? I shudder to think about what would happen under their brand of one-party-rule theocracy. Yikes.
What makes someone rich? It's too bad we've all been taught it's money.
It's good for the soul to put things in perspective once in a while. Just a thought.
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Is it easier to contemplate war when the cost is censored?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/02/16/AR2009021601480.html
It still boggles my mind that Bush Sr. had the gall to stop images of fallen soldiers' caskets from being disseminated in the media. And that we've allowed it to continue since he left office! While I understand the idea that families who've lost fathers, mothers, sons, and daughters in the war might not relish seeing flag-draped caskets on the front page of their local paper, I think we OWE it to them to print photos like this, to feel that sick pit of unease in our stomachs at the sight of these ultimate sacrifices. What they DON'T deserve is the weight of the situation being glossed over daily by people who just want to go on living their inane daily lives ignorant of the fact that we are in two wars right now. These are the same people who can't bear to turn on the news for fear of being 'bummed out'. Cry me a river. Literally--if some of my fellow countrymen in the U.S. contemplated the true weight and cost of war, instead of writing people off as casualties in the fight for freedom, maybe there would be a little less war. Just a little...
I know it sounds naive, but I can still dream.
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Friday, February 13, 2009
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Friday, January 30, 2009
The truth shall set you free?
Finally, finally Israel's true colors have been starting to show...it's even creeping into American media (i.e., the recent 60 Minutes piece on CBS). I still don't trust our media though.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
IS there an answer?
Watch CBS Videos Online
What is the solution to the Israeli-Palestinian problem? If there's no way a two-state solution will happen, why are they wasting time paying lip service to the negotiation of it?
Is there any possibility of a democratic solution? Of a single government with both Israelis and Palestinians represented? Where Israelis and Palestinians can go to Jerusalem with no problem and Palestinian's homes aren't being occupied? But is the idea of a democratic government just as naive? Israel is wrong to create lush green communities with nice roads and limitless water supply and then treat Palestinians as less than second class citizens, not allowing them to even use the roads, dealing with blockades literally everywhere they need to go, limiting their water supply, chastising them, abusing them, killing them. And this is all on what was supposed to be Palestinian land! How do those in power in Israel sleep at night? How can anyone call themselves a "good" person and rationalize this? This is why we are seeing anti-Zionist movements within the Jewish community in Israel, protesters holding signs screaming to end the settlements.
There is no easy way out of this. I don't think continuing to force people out of their homes, Israeli OR Palestinian, is the answer. It can only result in more bloodshed. No matter who they are or why, people are going to defend themselves. It would be unnatural not to. We all want to survive.
Monday, January 26, 2009
BBC & SKY NEWS: Run the ad!
The innocent civillians that the DEC (Disaster Emergency Committee)'s advert concerns don't care about political affiliation right now. They care about not dying. THEY NEED HELP TO SURVIVE. The BBC and SKY News can't claim impartiality if in Burma (this year!!!) they did allow the same kind of broadcast once they were sure the aid would actually get to the victims it was specified for. How is this different? They are catering, yet again, to the Israelis. Whether BBC & SKY realize it or not, they are penalizing innocent Palestinian civilians--many more civilians than militants.
Genocide.
Genocide.
Genocide.
Calling it something else doesn't make the outcome any different.
Sunday, January 25, 2009
More of what American media does not tell you
Bravo to the courageous people who search for the truth. Alison Weir researched media coverage of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict over the years and was flabbergasted at what she found--a frighteningly disparate portrait of what we thought we knew. The video above explains her research; the video below reports the death threat she received afterward.
Saturday, January 24, 2009
If this doesn't completely break your heart, you don't have one.
Thank you, khany for this. Thank you.
To everyone else, if you're an American citizen, you have an obligation to educate yourself. Our government really is representative of us, whether we like it or not, and whether or not we are too complacent to be involved in it. Our complacency doesn't change the precarious position our nation's foreign policy has put us in from the perspective of the rest of the world. We are complicit in our silence. I am refusing to be silent. It's the least I can do for my country and for innocent Palestinians being slaughtered daily.
Watch this and think about the media you take in on a daily basis. Think about the importance of semantics and narrative in shaping the majority of American citizenry's opinion of the conflict in Gaza, and of the greater Israeli-Palestinian conflict itself. Get your news from broader sources, outside the U.S. The web is our greatest resource now in the face of a spineless and corrupt mainstream American media.
Take this video. Embed it. Post it to Facebook, Myspace, write to your local and state representatives, write to President Obama. Just do something.
America turns a blind eye to genocide
How can so many American citizens, including our new President, turn a blind eye to what we've enabled Israel to do to innocent Palestinians? The cycle of abuse continues. You want an answer to why so many Muslims have a bad opinion of the U.S.? Here's a start.
Friday, January 23, 2009
Boycott Fox News
This is such horse crap. No matter what Obama does during the duration of his administration, they will find a way to tear it down. So what if HBO got the rights to broadcast the Lincoln Memorial Concert? The money HBO paid went to paying policemen working the inauguration overtime and to cleaning up the 130 tons of trash left over afterward. Otherwise these little tidbits would have been at taxpayer expense and Fox would ream his administration for that too. The inauguration was viewable for anyone who wanted to see it, whether on tv or the web. Some stupid concert two days before is really irrelevant. Petty, petty Fox with their cute little bleach blonde wannabe news anchors pretending to be journalists.
The irony is that in the end, this HISTORIC inauguration STILL cost $10,000 less than Bush's.
What "hope" means to me

It's such a loaded word.
Here's what it means to me.
I hope that President Obama will be true to his own words, meaning that he will shape a government that respects the idea of remaining secular and tolerant, not theocratic. As parts of our country grow alarmingly dependent on religion, we who are not religious are that much more dependent on the rule of law to mediate. If the law abandons us, we have little hope. Theocracy has stolen our government for the last 8 years, and I hope that January 20, 2009 marked the beginning of a new way of thinking and practicing foreign policy that is actually very much rooted in our past. Yes, our country was born in the flight from religious persecution, and yes, two-thirds of the delegates dubbed the "founding fathers" were of various (mostly Christian) denominations, but one-third of them were not. One third of them were either non-practicing, agnostic, or atheist. But all of them recognized the importance of protecting and preserving religious tolerance with the rule of law. There is no other way. Man is an emotional creature by nature, and passion is one of the great forces of humanity. But passions are all too often misguided, and when it goes too far we have little but the law to protect us. This must be guarded at all costs.
Saturday, January 10, 2009
Just how effective was that 9/11 Commission Report?
Offshore? Try paying taxes like the rest of us.
Finally!
Any American holding an offshore bank account with untaxed money gets no sympathy from me. They're finally starting to get what they deserve. Joe Public doesn't have the funds to hire a broker or to have their money tucked safely away in offshore accounts--Joe is using whatever funds he has to buy GROCERIES, GASOLINE, pay DOCTOR'S BILLS...you know, those luxuries we all love so much.
Friday, January 9, 2009
Eww, look! It's a liberal!

Is this really what people believe? I think liberals are in fact very much the oppposite of self-loathing. Find me a liberal who doesn't love their fellow man. A prerequisite for loving your fellow man is, of course, loving yourself. Now, not every liberal is going to be a people person (not everyone is) but we do share a common belief (I think): by looking out for each other with the best intentions, we look out for ourselves. But it's not about selfishness, it's about understanding what the GREATER GOOD really is. And that is: the survival of mankind. You may say, "geez, it's not THAT serious!" But it really is. How can people continue to oppress each other and call it "moral?" What is this kind of morality you speak of? It doesn't sound very moral to me. It's moral to treat others as you would want to be treated, so why is it okay to ignore that when it comes to civil rights of any kind?
I'm registered as a Democrat, but I feel like an Independent. However, I wanted to be able to vote in the primaries of my antiquated state, so there you have it. It really irritates me when I hear/read people lumping each other into neat little categories like conservative and liberal, but I understand why they do it, and it does serve a purpose. And of course I'm guilty of doing it myself. Personally, I consider myself a fiscal conservative and a social liberal. But it seems so many people feel you cannot be both. Actually, I think most people in this country are fiscal conservatives--especially right now in light of our economic crisis. So what this leaves me with is that we are a country divided by social liberty issues. The so-called "moral" issues like gay marriage, abortion, drugs, etc.
Have you ever wondered what would happen if we agreed to disagree on those social issues, just for the sake of experiment? Does anyone truly think society would fall to pieces?
Any worse than it is right now?
I must rant. Humor me.
Saturday, January 3, 2009
We reap what we sow.
Do a little digging after you watch this video. The U.S. has thrown its money behind the likes of terrorists for eons. They're just usually mislabled as "governments." It's this kind of hypocrisy that fuels the fire and continues to breed contempt for Americans--who cannot be bothered to find out what atrocities their own government is and has been involved in. It's got to be hard for Middle Easterners to believe that we as a culture are as far-removed as we are, one might even say oblivious--because for them, there is no escape. Not even in dreams.
Friday, January 2, 2009
Well, thank God (?) for Pat Robertson's sage advice...ugh.
Robertson makes predictions every year, and this year he says the economy is going to improve, despite what the collective of world economists are saying. He also thinks the U.S. will not be looked upon in the world (financially) as it once was, and that we will no longer be a great superpower and will find various dangerous dictators popping up. To this I say: a surprise it is not. At the end of the video he says "Obama will be able to get anything he wants" because people's fears will naturally drive them to socialism. He posits that we will see a greater expansion of governmental power than at any time since the New Deal. Newsflash: it was thanks to the New Deal that many of the great social programs we appreciate in this country even exist. It becomes so easy to take these things for granted after you've enjoyed the benefits for a few decades. If the country repeatedly lurches toward socialism in whatever form, is it not logical to posit that it is an evolutionary shift? We can all see how well capitalism works--ha. But, if socialism is such a scare to everyone, why can't we have a system which combines the best traits of both capitalism and socialism? Why must everything be painted in extremes? Capitalism fails when left to wanton human greed which derives from the natural inclination of self-preservation. Why continue to fight that which is natural? Instead, why not regulate its weaknesses? This is where some of the tenets of socialism apply. This is not to say, "yay--let's turn EVERYTHING over to the government!" But, the argument that this will be the largest expansion of government since the New Deal just doesn't hold water when the truth is that that expansion has slowly been taking place ever since 2001 under George W. Bush and our national reaction to being on the receiving end of terrorism for once. It's so scary to think that the U.S. may not be a world superpower any longer, but by the same token, the U.S. has been an oppressor to many nations and a catalyst in many foreign disputes ever since the birth of this country. We have to accept the history of our own country if we're ever going to make progress in an ever-changing future. And by the way, there have always been dictators. There are always disputes halfway around the world. We have to stop allowing ourselves to be controlled by fear.
Thursday, January 1, 2009
I have hope for 2009.

Snapshot: latter half of 2008. War continues in Iraq, spreads in Afghanistan, Russian forces march into Georgia, Syria sits on the fence, Pakistan and India level threats after terrorist attacks in Mumbai, Israel fires on Hamas in Gaza, and the death knell rings louder and louder.
Will it ever stop?
I don't believe in God per se, so I don't have a prayer for 2009, but I do have hopes. I hope that President Obama's idea of diplomacy will not be at the end of a gun, as Cowboy Bush's has been, and in all likelihood, things are going to change substantially. Let's just hope relations in the Middle East aren't so far gone that there's no turning back--that with a President leading America who wants a more open worldwide dialogue between countries, we can make true progress. But these are big dreams, and right now it's hard to see that far into the future. But we keep squinting, peering into that more hopeful horizon. I hope we never stop doing that. It's what makes us human.

On a more personal note, I hope that my lazy ass will go to the gym on a regular basis, since I'm paying for it anyway!! And, I'd like to learn a lot more about digital photography. I had 2 years of photography waaaay back in high school, but none in college, and this was of course only in the beginning of the digital camera era, so of course my school had us using old Pentax cameras. But the same rules of aperture still apply, only you have no true depth of field with a digital camera...but I digress. Regardless, my husband is into photography as well, so we we will embark on 2009's planned vacations with cameras in hand, ready to explore. :)
I hope that the quality of everyone's lives improve, even in these trying times. There has to be light at the end of our very dark economic tunnel somewhere, and here's hoping the best economic minds collected in Obama's cabinet can pool their resources with the humblest of motives: to save us.
and exciting 2009!
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
The NY Fat Tax--hope you like water!

But, it's another one of those gray areas--much like the debate about socialism vs. capitalism. How far do you take it? At what point in trying to act in people's best interests do you begin to deprive them of freedoms which are their birthright? Now we come full circle, back to the argument that it is unfortunately NOT people's birthright to eat themselves to death, myself included. We're like bad little toddlers that have to be disciplined, nutritionally. There's not nearly enough nutritional education in this country's schools, and we put McDonald's in school cafeterias and wonder why kids are fat. Portion sizes across the board are out of control as well. When going to your average restaurant, you can almost always guarantee cutting your serving size in half and taking it home. But if you're anything like me, you'll forget the other half is in the fridge and find it covered with something interesting but definitely not edible weeks later in the back of the fridge. What a waste! There are people starving all over the world, and Americans have to make mental notes while at restaurants to halve their serving sizes so they can fit in their jeans. What an astronomical and almost unfathomable difference. Makes you think.
On Woman's Best Friend

But seriously, look at that face. You bring them home, watch them grow, teach them, train them, get to know their personalities, find your inner child in romping around with them, and if you're lucky like our huge mammal Tucker, you snuggle up with them at night too. Oh, the snoring.

Tucker had a hard time learning to shake hands. Granted, he trained pretty well in everything else (except jumping up on visitors upon arrival! Grr.), but I knew he could learn it with repetition. I think part of his problem was that the awkward, lurching, cuteness of puppyhood carried into adulthood, so when he'd try to sit and I began by slowly picking up his paw, he'd literally fall over and look at me like, "why'd you do that and why am I on the floor?"
But, when he finally got it three times in a row, I knew he had it for good. Now, when he gets a doggy treat, he patiently sits, waits, shakes hand/paw, and politely accepts his reward! My boy's all grown up! *tear*

Tips for owners of large dogs:
- If the dog is so large that you cannot pick him up yourself, you'd better demonstrate who's boss from day one. This requires getting creative with discipline. My dog has responded best to small spray bottles placed around the house (1 for each floor--there used to be more). We don't even have to actually squirt him for the most part. Just picking up the bottle is enough to make him look at you like you killed his best friend, or ate his ham sandwich.
- A coffee can filled with some coins also works well. Anything (within reason!) that jars the dog's attention from whatever bad act they're doing and makes them focus on you as the leader is key.
- For walks, I found that Tucker was a real puller when he was a puppy. You literally had to be a STRONG person to walk him, even at 8 months old. He could rip your arm out of its socket! But I discovered something made by the Halti® Co. that basically acts as a bridle would to a horse, but without the bit in the animal's mouth. It places one strap over the muzzle, and a modified strap underneath the mouth, and both straps connect with the strap that goes around the head, with an attachment to the collar. It's really very simple, but the effect is that when the dog pulls, it also pulls on its own collar, which is slightly uncomfortable for the dog, but not in the least bit painful. It gives you full control over their head, as opposed to the minimal control you get from a leash just attached to a regular collar. The Halti® retails for about $15-20, depending on your dog's size and can be found in most pet stores. Tucker still tries to rub his face into the ground to get it off for the first 5 minutes of the walk, but he does not pull anymore in the least. It's wonderful to be able to walk with a completely slack leash with the dog walking lock-step next to you, on best behavior.
Monday, December 29, 2008
The Same Old Culture War
The very last lines of Mr. Lowry's trashy prose say it all:
Ah, yes, "gracefully step aside." That's essentially what the cultural left has been asking traditionalists to do for 30 years now, to politely shut up while it goes about redefining the country's mores. The answer must now be, as it has always been, "No way, no how."
This is how a bigot rationalizes hate. Read it again. See how it's done.

While Mr. Lowry clearly thinks his sarcastic wit is oh-so-charming, let's unveil it for what it really is: discrimination, bigotry, hate, and an elementary-level understanding of the world.
As far as I'm concerned, the cultural left has put up with way more shit than it should have to for the past 30 years while hate mongers hide behind their bibles, pounding away at scripture, hoping it will make their fallacies true. It won't.
Someone, PLEASE, PLEASE explain to me how allowing gay couples to marry and raise their families under recognition of law impairs any straight person's marriage? I have yet to hear a response to that question, and I've heard it posed a hundred ways. Never is a straight answer returned. Because there isn't one.
Why are people so unbelievably determined to not question the validity or applicability of their Holy Books? These books, whether the Bible, the Q'uran, etc, have multiple versions, translations, and misconstruable meanings, yet so many are so willing to take every word at face value. I'll never understand that. The Bible, for instance, was translated before you or I were even a part of the earth, by men who were primitive in their thinking compared to now, if only for lack of education (i.e., no one other than clergy could really read, and any clergyman's reading abilities even then were questionable), and complete lack of mass communication. This was not anyone's fault, it was just how things were at that point in time. The Bible was a useful tool for controlling wanton masses, and I'm sure that in that age, desperate times called for such desperate measures. But let us not forget that the words of the Bible still came through the interpretation of man, with all of his faults, fears, and ill-education.

So how can we now, all of these years later, still follow it word for word? If that were true we'd still be selling our daughters into slavery, and stoning people for working on Sundays. That's insane. Yet when it comes to so-called "moral" issues, cling tightly to that Bible, because it's going to "SAVE" you and your children from "THE GAYS!"
Sure, I'm biased. My best friend is gay, and he and his partner rent a room from myself and my husband in our house. And I love them both like family. When they get married, I'll be the one leading them through their vows, whether a government or a church recognizes it or not. I didn't always feel this way. I grew up believing in the Bible, that "man lying with man" was wrong. But then comes exposure. The more you're around it, the more comfortable you become over time. And then you start researching. And you find out there have been gay men and women in public life forever--it was just never mentioned or was hush-hush. And you put yourself in their shoes. When you do that, and I mean REALLY do that, you think "why would anyone want to subject themselves to such persecution and misery if they really could choose?" If you look deep inside yourself I think you know the answer to that. There is no choice. The choice is yours and mine, as heterosexuals, to stop being so goddamn afraid of everything we don't understand, and try to understand it.
I feel truly sorry for these people who continually say 'oh I don't have anything against the gays, but I don't think they should be able to get married.' That is such BS. Who says that with a straight face? If you can, you are kidding yourself. Another word for this would be DELUSION.
You cannot say you have nothing against someone and in the same breath deem it unacceptable to legally spend their lives with the person they love and have decided to become a family with. None of this bullshit about equating homosexuality with incest or polygamy or pedophilia either--everyone knows that's not what this is about. Stop lying. No one believes it but the liars themselves.
I love my husband. Marrying him, to me, meant marrying my best friend and having some small possiblity of living out the remainder of my life with the one person I'd give my own life for. If someone stood in front of me with a Bible or any other Holy Book and said their beliefs can't allow me to do that, I'd say "look the other way then." But this is all just conjecture, I know. Regardless, it still makes me SICK to watch people rationalize what is, to me, irrational if you look at it outside of emotion and tradition, without the lenses of fear, misplaced self-righteousness and hypocrisy.
what right do these people have to play the VICTIM? oh waaaaa, they're villified for publicly coming out as homophobes--good! I'm so glad. They deserve it. Do not expect pity from those who've been villified EONS longer than you, poor little Rick Warren.
Also, how is it that those who would legalize gay marriage are telling conservatives to shut up while we "redefine the country's mores"? Hasn't it been the other way around for...oh I don't know...FOREVER?
You actually think there weren't homosexuals in Jesus' time? And that it didn't seem convenient and productive to the clergy's cause to insert a few choice lines to make the homosexual lifestyle seem "wrong"? Why is that so hard to believe? Because these people were perfect? Yeah, they were perfect enough to string Jesus up on the cross. Maybe they were just confused and thought Jesus was homosexual. Hmmm.
What I also find funny...
Sunday, December 28, 2008
What I find funny
We watched every single speech.
I mean EVERY. SINGLE. SPEECH.
So much that you really began to memorize their platforms, talking points, points to avoid, canned jokes, and anything in between. If you saw it on one station, you saw it rehashed on the next.
But through watching all of this (and reading his books), I personally thought I'd come to quite a multi-faceted understanding of Barack Obama. As much as the right painted him as an extreme liberal, I knew this was not true. Even as much as Hillary painted him as a liberal (HA!) when it was to her advantage, I knew this was not true.
I'm no political savant, nor a sheep (I'd like to think). But one thing I'd like to say I have is an affinity for attention to detail. And Obama's devil was in his details. He never tried to hide just how conservative he could be (I'm sure many conservatives would find that thought laughable, but pffft to them) but he did try to downplay how liberal he was. Some on the right thought it was intentional for the benefit of the election--I, however, saw it as preparation. Preparation=warning for those who so wholeheartedly supported the first black Democratic nominee for President for only those reasons--that he was black and/or a Democrat. I think those in this country who fit into that category wanted to believe that a President Obama would mean social/civil freedoms as far as the eye could see--and they may be right--eventually. But make no mistake, the changes will not be automatic nor easy. Obama's essential understanding is that no progress has ever been made without compromise. No compromise has ever been reached without hard-fought idealism and more than a little pain. So while he may well agree with many of America's liberal leanings, he is nowhere near stupid enough to voice it, even if it is true. There are a lot of people in this country still who are not ready for the America that we're going to be. It doesn't make them any less American than we are. But it does make for slow progress--though it is progress nonetheless. And so Obama will continue to appoint Republicans to his cabinet, and he well should. Because no one side has all the answers, although both would like to think they do. It doesn't have to be only socialism v. capitalism, or liberal v. conservative, Democrat v. Republican. We CAN take the best of both worlds on all fronts--we just have to get out of our own way long enough to do so.
This is what I find funny--that Obama continually told the electorate what they could expect from him, yet now they keep expecting different results--that he's going to be the magical liberal they'd hoped he would be, and the first black President to boot!
Sorry guys, but I'll take a President who at least attempts to be honest (even when it's hugely unpopular) any day. If it moves us further toward that promised land in The Glorious Center, I'm there.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
OMG
...while it's running?
And then have to wait...and wait...and wait...for someone to come and unlock it?
Done at work @ 6----->home @ 8.
Yeah, it sucks A LOT.
Sigh.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
So my coworker, who's a bigot, continues to try to brainwash me...
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To: xxxxx
From: xxxxx@comcast.net
The writer says:
BE PROUD TO BE WHITE!
It's not a crime yet, but getting real close!"
This kind of crap going around doesn't help anybody, although I'm sure it helps assuage your little bit of "white guilt" that you feel when a black person passes you on the street and you inwardly try to remind yourself that not every person of color wants to shoot or rape you.
I agree that affirmative action has spawned some strange bedfellows, but you can't pretend that there was no reason for these organizations (such as the Black and Hispanic Chambers of Commerce, etc.) to exist to begin with. They were created in a time where the interests of minorities were not as equally represented as they are now. This same logic applies to colleges, cable TV stations, and the like. Not a single one of those black colleges denies entrance to white applicants. I just read an article about a white student (the ONLY white student) attending a black college in the DC area. He said he feels absolutely no racism, prejudice, no discomfort. He was completely welcomed. They also do not deny scholarships to whites--it is simply that whites do not apply for them. Funny how intellectuals can rise above this kind of crap, huh? And yet you and your brethren cannot.

Your slanted view of the history of this country amazes me still. Why don't you go talk to some Native Americans whose heritage was indigenous to the Georgia area, whose relatives died on the Trail of Tears so more "entrepreneurial" white men could have the gold from land that wasn't theirs to begin with, and then tell me how perfect white history is.
It is the denial of OUR shared history that perpetuates racism. Anyone who spits racial epithets at ANYONE ELSE on the street is a racist, whether they're black, white or brown. They are all less for having done it. It has nothing to do with color of skin--it has to do with fear. OF COURSE some people are "black, brown, yellow, and orange" and "not afraid to announce it"--because they can do that now without fear of attack or retribution, but we are not far from the days when this was not so. Do you really expect people not to be exuberant about this freedom? If it were you, you would be. It's a natural human reaction. Why is it not your natural reaction to celebrate it WITH them? Joy is not exclusive.
I'm proud to be a human being--I just happen to be white. It's important to know our history, the good and bad of all sides, in order to accept it and build a lucrative future for everyone. That's why America, even despite the wars we're in right now, still stands for liberty across the globe.

I pity you for the wealth of knowledge that you continue to deny yourself. Good luck with that.
----- Original Message -----
From: xxxxx
To: xxxxx@comcast.net
Sent: Thursday, December 4, 2008 8:18:30 PM GMT -05:00 US/Canada Eastern
Subject: Fwd: Proud To Be White
ha ha - sorry, but this is true - glad you are thereKramer of Seinfeld:I have been wondering about why Whites are racists, and no other race is.Proud to be White Michael Richards makes his point...Michael Richards, better known as Kramer from TVs Seinfeld, does make a good point.This was his defense speech in court after making racial comments in his comedy act. He makes some very interesting points...Someone finally said it... How many are actually paying attention to this?There are African Americans, Mexican Americans, Asian Americans, Arab Americans, etc. And then there are just Americans. You pass me on the street and sneer in my direction. You call me 'White boy,' 'Cracker,' 'Honkey,' 'Whitey,' Caveman' and that's OK.But when I call you, Nigger, Kike, Towel head, Sand-nigger, Camel Jockey, Beaner, Gook, or Chink ... You call me a racist. You say that whites commit a lot of violence against you...so why are the ghettos the most dangerous places to live?You have the United Negro College Fund. You have Martin Luther King Day.You have Black History Month. You have Cesar Chavez Day.You have Yom Hashoah.You have Ma'uled Al-Nabi.You have the NAACP.You have BET...If we had WET (White Entertainment Television), we'd be racists.If we had a White Pride Day, you would call us racists.
If we had White History Month, we'd be racists.
If we had any organization for only whites to 'advance' OUR lives we'd be racists.We have a Hispanic Chamber of Commerce, a Black Chamber of Commerce, and then we just have the plain Chamber of Commerce.Wonder who pays for that??A white woman could not be in the Miss Black American pageant, but any color can be in the Miss America pageant.If we had a college fund that only gave white students scholarships...You know we'd be racists.There are over 60 openly proclaimed Black Colleges in the U.S.Yet if there were 'White colleges' That would be a racist college.In the Million Man March, you believed that you were marching for your race and rights.If we marched for our race and rights, you would call us racists.You are proud to be black, brown, yellow and orange, and you're not afraid to announce it.But when we announce our white pride, you call us racists.You rob us, carjack us, and shoot at us.But, when a white police officer shoots a black gang member or beats up a black drug-dealer running from the law and posing a threat to society, you
call him a racist.I am proud...But you call me a racist.Why is it that only whites can be racists??There is nothing improper about this e-mail...Let's see which of you are proud enough to send it on.I sadly don't think many will. That's why we have lost most of OUR RIGHTS in this country. We won't stand up for ourselves !BE PROUD TO BE WHITE!
It's not a crime yet, but getting real close!
-Gary Kiser
AUS Retired
www.trea.org